Hadhrat Musleh Maud (radih Allah anho) in his book Anwar-ul-Uloom, Volume 9, Min Haj-ut-Talibeen, pages 201 to 208, wrote some invaluable points relating to the upbringing of young children, starting from birth. The 26 points he mentions on the Tarbiyyat of children are valid even today as they were then, proving yet again the keen intellect and far sightedness of Hudhur (ra). The Urdu extract is given here Extracts from Min Hajut-ul-Talebeen and the English extract is here English Translation of Extracts from Min Haju-ul-Taleben

and a summary of the 26 points, in Urdu and English is given in this leaflet:- Tarbiyyat-e-Aulad Leaflet